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I had the same dilemma working in a restaurant. Am I wasting away my time on repetitive little things or is this a lesson that not everything is meant for growth? Maybe some filler activities are good, as long as I don't stress out about wasting time... flow is being in the moment, for me - as long as I let myself be, without judgement, everything flows. What you have and I didn't is contemplation, writing down your experiences and adjusting your path based on your values, to make sure you flow in the right direction. You inspired me to write in a journal again, and I'm grateful for that 🤗

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I long to be simply flowing without judgement. That seems like a beautiful place to be 🩵 And can’t wait to hear your reflections too hehe

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Was just thinking of this the other day, how we're constantly swinging in that one pendulum to the next (too busy / too chill / too busy / too chill) but the present, in its evanescence, is the most beautiful part of it all.

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This!!! ✨✨✨

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Thinking about it, it almost sounds like you're one of the main characters in a Murakami novel. Especially considering your writing style in the first paragraph is similar to his... Now, I just want to read more and get to know the observations of a tea shop owner between 3-8pm in TST, the conversations with friends and the strangers who stop by, and just in general her thoughts and feelings to her daily life!

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Channeling my inner Murakami! I think that’s what his writing does to you, to appreciate the mundane!

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I’ve been enjoying the metaphor of surrendering to what life is putting in front of me. It feels like a more feminine version of flow (where masculine maybe feels more like productivity flow). I’m so excited you’re running a tea shop!

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🙏✨🔮💜 I’m going to use this metaphor as a mini mantra ☺️ I’m interested in finding out more feminine versions of “things” that can potentially be more beneficial to myself (feels like a re-definition of feminism of sorts).

And thanks! I love my little tea shop! Hope to be able to share more with you about it soon 😍

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